What is the Quest Center for Integrative Health?

Community Nutrition Night at Quest
For three decades the Quest Center’s holistically focused medical/wellness approach has been helping those in need in the Portland, Oregon area.

Throughout our Fall Fundraiser we are sharing stories about how some of the projects we support got started. Below you can read about how Lusijah Marx’s project was inspired by a receiving in 1989 at the Subud World Congress.

Lusijah Marx:

Quest Center for Integrative Health

At the 1989 Subud World Congress, Lusijah Marx received very clearly that she should focus her dissertation on persons living with HIV/AIDS. Although she’d had little prior interaction with that community, the receiving was clear, and it changed the course of her life.

Lucijah Marx

It was the 1980’s, a time when the AIDS epidemic was causing panic and fear in many places. No one fully understood this new and unknown virus. Some hospitals would not treat people with AIDS symptoms, and those that did often isolated patients and dressed staff in masks and gowns, adding to the terror. As word spread that most of those who mysteriously fell sick and died were gay men and IV drug users, healthy people tried to distance themselves by regarding AIDS as an illness facing “others.” It was these “others” that Lusijah’s receiving at World Congress prompted her to work with. 

Quest Center’s “Community Nutrition Night,” funded by a grant from Susila Dharma USA, offers weekly dinners that nurture, support and empower the community through shared meals and workshops. 30-35 men and women living below the federal poverty line attend each dinner and accompanying workshop.

For her dissertation research, Lusijah looked at the positive effects of guided imagery and hypnosis on HIV+ men. One participant in her study was a young man named Lucas Harris. Only 26 years old, Lucas had been diagnosed with AIDS and told he had only a short time left to live. He deeply felt his desperate situation and made the decision to live each remaining day as fully as he could. Lucas joined Subud, knowing that it was Lusijah’s spiritual path and the path of others whom he respected. 

One night, after a particularly emotional healing session, Lusijah had a powerful dream. In her dream, she and Lucas had created a healing center where marginalized people could receive care in a community-focused model. The healing center offered alternative treatments such as acupuncture, and addressed lifestyle patterns such as smoking, drugs, eating, sleeping, etc. The dream also showed her changes that she needed to make in her life to have a bigger heart, and changes that Lucas needed to make in his life. The next day, she was astounded to learn that Lucas had dreamed the same dream, even the parts about needing to make changes within themselves. 

Though neither of them felt that they had the practical skills required to create such a center—Lucas had worked as a hair stylist, and Lusijah, mother of four, as a nurse and clinician—both felt strongly that they should give their best efforts to make the dream a reality. They started every day with latihan and the intention to be open to anything that would help develop the healing center. It took around a year as they tried to follow what they received in latihan, which included finding a lawyer to help them apply for 501(c)(3) non-profit status. Although they made mistakes along the way, they kept learning, they persevered, and eventually they were able to make their dream a reality.

Lucas died in March of 1996, but Lusijah has continued to work at Quest Center for Integrative Health, which has grown and seen many successes over the decades. Today Quest is a thriving holistic health center providing traditional, complementary and alternative treatments, as well as support for dying peacefully and living fully. It now has 71 employees and three locations, and is highly regarded by the local medical community as well as the Portland, Oregon community at large. Quest Center is a testament to the power of the latihan and all that can come about when we truly follow our inner receiving. 

Click hereto learn more about Quest Center for Integrative Health.

 

Brothers and sisters, let us praise
And thank the One Almighty God,
For we have received His grace
Which has enabled us to worship Him.

(from Let Us Be Sincere, song at Lebaran in Bapak’s House, Cilandak, December 11, 1969)

I Protect Me

Monica Clarke-Bennett

Throughout our Fall Fundraiser we have been sharing stories about how some of the projects we support got started. Below you can read Monica Clarke-Bennett’s story of I Protect Me and how it began in South Africa just a few years ago. 

In Cape Town, South Africa on February 2, 2013, a seventeen year old girl was brutally gang raped and murdered. Sadly, gender-based violence in South Africa is widespread.

I Protect Me volunteer Sexual Violence Prevention Workers give training to school children and vulnerable adults.
Monica Clarke-Bennett

Monica Clarke-Bennett, feeling she needed to take action, wrote articles to local newspapers expressing her distress. Monica had always been deeply affected by stories of abuse of women and children, in part because she herself suffered abuse as a young woman. She knew first-hand the powerlessness felt by abused women; they endure their suffering silently, afraid to expose their abuser, afraid of the stigma brought upon their family if they speak out. Although she didn’t yet have a specific plan of action, Monica wrote in her articles that the only way to break the cycle of violence was to start with children and empower them while still young.

One of her articles was read by someone traveling on an overnight flight from USA to Kenya. This person was so moved by what they read that upon landing they immediately got in touch with an individual they knew in Nairobi who taught Sexual Violence Prevention in local schools. That same morning, Monica received an email inviting her to Kenya to be trained by their organization, Dolphin Anti-Rape and AIDS Awareness Outreach (see the Dolphin YouTube video here).

Upon learning of her intention to start up a project, Susila Dharma France offered to pay her airfare to Kenya. Monica traveled to Nairobi a short time later and visited schools where Dolphin’s curriculum was being taught. “I saw them give 2-hour sessions to three groups of about 500 primary school children who, with song, dance and repetition learnt lessons such as ‘Nobody has the right to touch my private parts,’ while each child with exaggeration touched their own private parts between whoops of laughter whilst dancing — and I could see the lesson sink in like water into dry sand.” Monica immediately knew that curriculum was exactly what she needed to bring to South Africa.

Thanks to the generosity of several Subud members, she was able to secure sponsorship for airfares for a team from Nairobi, Kenya to travel to South Africa and train 12 volunteers (Dolphin conducted their training for no fee). Once the first group of Sexual Violence Prevention Workers in South Africa was trained, they were ready to start sharing their message with children!

Trainers at I Protect Me

I Protect Me, as the new organization was named, was registered and launched as a NPO (non-profit organization) in Cape Town, South Africa in March 2014. They began leading trainings in local primary schools at that time. Their program consists of 10 lessons teaching both boys and girls that they have the power to resist abuse by setting their own boundaries and respecting the boundaries of others. Children are taught to protect themselves without using any weapons: “Use your voice, free yourself & run!” The trained Prevention Workers also train and supervise volunteer Peer Trainers age 16 and older, who then give sessions to even more children. They began giving training in primary schools and have since expanded to work in high schools as well. Monica estimates that to date I Protect Me has reached over 10,000 children and adults. Although challenges have been a constant — from needing more funds to retain staff, to dealing with the realities of drugs and gangs — through it all they have persevered, the program has gained widespread acclaim in the community and continues to grow.

Monica credits the success of I Protect Me to the latihan. Again and again, support for her project has come from unexpected people and places. She encourages all Subud members to follow our Inner Guidance; every one of us has the power to create change once we let go of our fears and doubts. Monica feels it isn’t she who is doing all the work of I Protect Me: “It’s being done. With the realization of our Inner Guidance, all we need to do is take the next step, then let this Power take over. It Really Does Work. I say this with 150% confidence!”

Learn more about I Protect Me on our website.

School Supply Giveaway Day in Tijuana

Imagine having to choose between sending your child to school and providing basic necessities for your family. Sadly, this is the reality for many parents at back-to-school season. Required school supplies and uniforms must be purchased in order for children to attend school. Families with multiple children are especially burdened by the financial demands that come with a new school year. 

Tijuana Family Outreach Project, founded and directed by Mikail Collins of Subud San Diego organizes monthly gatherings for financially struggling families that have no other community support or services. School Supply Giveaway Day has become one of their most highly attended events. At the annual gathering, gifts of backpacks filled with school supplies are presented, a meal is served, and bonds of friendship are strengthened among neighbors. Muchas gracias to Tijuana Family Outreach Project for organizing these monthly gatherings filled with camaraderie and caring, enabling families to receive much-needed charity while maintaining their dignity.

Susila Dharma USA board member Diego Salgado visited this year’s School Supply Giveaway Day and met many local families. Following are testimonies of gratitude from some of the parents in attendance:

“There are many kids who do not attend school because their parents don’t have the means of sending them to school. Even though there are public schools, the parents are still not able to provide for their kids. They’re not able to buy their kids a uniform or shoes. God has provided the sponsors with a magnificent and noble heart. Maybe for the sponsors this is just a simple event but for a lot of us parents and the kids this all comes as a blessing. It is a very big help.” (Griselda, mother of two)

“A pencil or a notebook helps tremendously as many times parents do not have money to buy their kids supplies. I have been in situations in the past where I was not able to buy my kids school supplies. I am currently studying law so this makes us be 3 students at home. So, a backpack is a big blessing. Not only on the physical level but also on an emotional and a spiritual level as well. As a single mother I feel very blessed for my kids to be a part of Casa Matita.” (Griselda, mother of two)

“Seeing the kids smile is the biggest satisfaction… People come from as far as Rosarito and Tecate to attend… Parents usually make a family outing of that one day a month they visit. They also receive donated clothes and shoes, which are laid out before them to take as needed.” (Alma, volunteer and mother of three)

“Casa Matita always offers us support and backpacks for the kids and with several events throughout the year. We have been here for the Day of the Child and for Christmas, where gifts are handed out and a nice meal is prepared. The gatherings are very heartfelt.” (Gladys, mother of three)”

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Wawa Illari: Transforming Lives in Peru

The rural community of Pachacamac, Peru is poor, barren, and dusty. Rates of poverty, domestic violence, and child abuse are high. Most families live in simple shacks with inadequate water and sanitation, poor hygiene and limited access to nutritious foods. In addition, many are refugees from the Shining Path Maoist group years of terror from other parts of the country, now uprooted, still recovering from trauma. All of these challenges and stresses make for an environment that puts young children at a distinct disadvantage.

Wawa Illari – Peru – May 2017—Wawa Illari team visits with leaders in Tambo Inga

Enter Wawa Illari, an all-Subud team of professionals working in the fields of early childhood health, nutrition, and community development. Wawa Illari, which means “Child Star” in the native Quechua language, is a collaboration of three well-established Susila Dharma projects: A Child’s Garden of Peace (USA), Asociación Vivir (Ecuador), and ICDP (International Child Development Programme, Peru). Guided by the latihan at each step of the project, Wawa Illari offers a multi-faceted community approach to improving early childhood development — delivering educational workshops in parenting, nutrition, cooking and organic gardening to families of children ages 0-3. This innovative project provides children, their caregivers, and the larger community an arsenal of tools to build strong foundations for the very youngest to overcome challenges of poverty.

“…she thought that showing love to her child meant buying something and giving it to the child. She has since learned that showing love means listening and communicating and
giving a hug.”

Wawa Illari stands out as a fantastic example of successful collaboration on multiple levels: community members working together to better the lives of their children, Susila Dharma projects working together to combat poverty from multiple angles, and Subud working together with grantors from outside of the Subud network. Setting a standard we hope to be replicated by future Susila Dharma projects, Wawa Illari applied for and received a grant from the Canadian government “to develop sustainable ways to promote and nurture healthy child and brain development in the first 1,000 days with a lasting impact on human capital in low-resource settings.” (Procuring this grant was no small accomplishment: over 800 applicants worldwide competed for the grant, and only Wawa Illari — the only Subud project to apply — received it.) The Canadian government grant provided most of the funds needed to establish an 18-month pilot project in Pachacamac, but some additional funding was still needed, so SDIA and several SD nationals stepped in with support.

Creating a Garden with children

The 18-month pilot project is just now concluding, and positive results are evident everywhere. Nurses have received new modules in their curriculum on the psychosocial and nutritional needs of the developing brain, parents have received trainings to develop enhanced caregiver-child interactions, families have received gardening resources and cooking classes. Participants from all areas of the project exude a new confidence and optimism, that in turn benefits the youngest members of the community.

Illène Pevec of A Child’s Garden of Peace reflected on results of the project. Formerly brown and barren neighborhoods are increasingly showing signs of green. Container gardens have been established at all project homes and around the community. Each family got to choose a fruit tree to plant: lemon, mandarin, peach, or apple. The preschool and health center, surrounded by dusty ground and slabs of cement, received fruit trees and maringa* trees as well.

In addition, A Child’s Garden of Peace trained a team of garden educators (health promotoras), each of whom was responsible for sharing knowledge, skills and supplies with families in the community. These women, also local residents and many of them parents, made weekly visits to families, bringing seeds, organic fertilizer, and sharing gardening and nutrition training (one educational message per week). While the whole community has benefitted from the work of the project, these women are among the most impacted. They have learned a lot, and also got a chance to provide much-needed income to their families. Illène reflected on seeing them after a year in the program: they were confident in their work, carrying plants, seeds, soil, recipes, food and information to all their families weekly for a year—climbing up and down the hills daily with babies in arms, even while wearing flip flops. The health promotoras covered very challenging terrain and did so with a smile and encouragement for the families they served.

Maria, one of the health promotoras, recalled that when she was a child someone from her school told her parents she was “slow,” and she had always thought she could not learn. Working with Wawa Illari, however, she realized that not only could she learn all that was taught to her, but she could teach others as well. Her self esteem sky rocketed. The program gave her self confidence and a sense of contribution to her community.

Ana, another health promotora, reflected that before participating in the ICDP trainings, she thought that showing love to her child meant buying something and giving it to the child. She has since learned that showing love means listening and communicating and giving a hug. She said she has also learned patience, a sentiment shared by many mothers. Parents who were brought up with hits and yells have learned to speak kindly and with affection. The ICDP component is one of the most challenging portions of the program because it requires the parents to learn new behaviors in their families. In Illène’s words, “Bravo to all these parents willing to grow on behalf of their children!”

Another health promotora, Julia, has a special needs teen-aged daughter who is bed-bound. Julia recently joined a support group for parents of special needs children. At a recent meeting, she told others in the group some of the things she had learned about parenting from ICDP. The others were so enthusiastic they arranged for her to make a presentation to another group of parents (families who had not been part of Wawa Illari’s pilot project) in the coming year on all she had learned from ICDP and Wawa Illari.

From parents to nurses to family gardens, Wawa Illari’s work has touched so many lives, and laid a framework for continued support and nurturing of the community’s youngest. As each of the promotoras has grown, so too can the community grow and better nurture its children. Thanks to the sincere and caring efforts of so many, a strong network of support, and guidance from the latihan, this has really been a fantastic collaboration.

The health promotoras have shared instructions with families on how to save seeds (some of last year’s plants are already producing new seeds that can be planted again!) and they have distributed more seeds for next season’s planting. With this fruitful and successful start, the Wawa Illari team is now assessing children’s health and testing on how to best proceed with the project.


*The Maringa tree is Maringa Oleifera, a fast growing tree native to India. While it can be invasive, its leaves, fruits and seeds are all valuable for food, oil, water purification and medicine, and fodder for animals.